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1.Your child has given you the pride to be a 'Mother'.You are a mother because you have a child.You would not have been a mother if you woudn't have a child.
2. You have love for your child, you worry a lot for your child than for yourself. Its the real good luck of your child that he has got such a good mother.
3.We call god 'Parmatma', Remember in the word Parmatma also the word 'ma' comes twice.
4. A mother grows sweet flowers.A mother keeps all the sorrows and wounds in her own heart and she only spreads the sweet or smell of flower in the world.
5.A mother is a replica of 'Emotion'. Mother is statue of love, Mother is base of all kinds of inspiration.
6.You are a mother, your motherhood is purely decorated with jain attributions. And child will definately get them from you.
7.Today the way your child is growing, we have three questions in our mind. a.Will they be purely tributed to you after twenty years from now. b.Will they be tributed to Jain religion after twenty years. c.Will they serve the 'Jain Sangha' after twenty years.
8. It is the dream of a mother that every child must be totally devoted to their family and their parents.
9. It is the dream of every mother that the child must keep alive the belief for Jain religion for the whole life.
10.It is also the dream of a mother that a child should do good work for the Jain-sangha.
11.Today the way your child is attached to you, the same way in future they will be attached to you.
12.Today your child will do whatever activities in Jain-religion they will continue doing that in future too.
13.Today the way your child is attached to Jain sangh the same way in future they would attached to it.
14.Whatever the child gets in present it refelects thhroughout in his life.Whatever the child do not get in childhoo, it never reflects in his future life.
15.There are Three specialities of a child. a.They are Emotional. b.They are Receptive. c.They rea great followers.
16.Child gets happy easily. Child gets sad easily. Child gets angry very often. Children are admant. They are admant because they are very emotional.
17.Children reads. Children remembers a lot, Children writes answers.Children asks many queries.They asks queries because they are very active imitaters.
18.Child does whatever we ask them to do.Child do not do whatever we ask them not to do.A child gets impress by other people. A child learns by seeing and marking things.They do so just because thay like to follow and imitate.
19.One must give ample time to their child. A child attached more with other people just because we give less time to them.
20.We should not behave in that manner which hurts the child. A child will get dettached to those persons who hurts them.
21.That persons should be good with whom the child leaves. A children gets benefit if they live with nice people.They are in great loss if they live with useless people.
22.Today how much time your child spends with you? Today how much time you spend with your child? How much time a child have for you?
23.Children gives time to their school.Children give time time their studie,Children give time to watch TV,Children give time for games. But think do the chidren give time to you/
24.You give time to kitchen. You give time for the household work. You give time to friends. You give time to watch TV. You give time for other activities, But think -- Do you give proper time to your children?
25.You are talking with your child and your is talking with you, in between this there is no work, no activity. That is what we call a real mingling of mother and child.
26.Today your own child is spending more time with someone-else and less time with you.
27.Your child is spending eight hours in the school which means that your child is away from you for eight hours.
28.At School- there are teachers, there are students, there is education, there is a system.
29.Are the teachers in the school is Jain? No Are the teachers in the school are Vegetarians? No Are all the students in the school all Hindus? No Just think, what kind of teaching your child is getting from such teachers.
30.The child very easily gets impressed by the person with whom, he spends time. Just imagine what your child might be learning by getting impressed by such teeachers.
31.Are all the students in the school is Jain? No Are they all only vegetarian? No Are they all Hindu? No Your child spends eight hours of their day with such children. Imagine, what they might be learning from them.
32.Does school education is based on Jain religion? No Is the school education based on Indian techniques? No Is this education, very useful for our soul? No Will the school education help your child to become a great religious man? No
33.Is there any importance of Jaintva described in the school prayer? No Is the school syllabus compile with the importance of Jain teachings? No Is in the atmosphere of school there is any importance of Jaintva? No
34.A child will never become a Jain just by taking education in a school. To make a child a Jain, he has to made involve in special jain techings related studies.
35.Children watches TV. What is there in TV.Serial, Cartoons, Picture. What do they learn from that.Do they learn good Jain teaching or something else?
36.What do the children learn from TV, Video, or Picture? Children learns Voilence. Children learns how to speak lie. Children learns theft. Children learns all the bad things. The more time the child work give to watch TV, the more his basic goodness would ruin.
37.Your child also learns many a things from friends also, thus the choice of friends also should be good.
38.Have you got angry on your child? How many times? Have you ever beat your child? How many times? Have you ever insulted your child? How many times? Have you ever brought disgrace to your child. How many times?
39.A children feels deeply hurted if someone gets angry with them.They feel bad if they are insulted. They feel sad if we beat them. They feel depected if we make them sad.
40.The mother who gives her child pain and sadness, that mother simply loses her child. How come such kind of mmother can be called a mother who does such things.
41.A child should not be scolded in the presence of others. One should not beat the chold, one should not adopt such behaviour which brings tears in the eyes of a child. One should not behave in such a way by which a child gets frightened.
42.Be very friendly with the child. Make such relationship with the child that he reveals his whole heart to you.If a child hides something from the parents that is the failure of parents.
43.We must play with children, we must laugh with them.We should tell long long tales to them and speak with them. We should take food with them, we must allow them to sleep on our lap. Its the old belief that by doing such things a child gets devvoted to their parent forever.
44.Child is not only a human being but he is a pure soul too. A man has the life period of 100 years, but the life of soul is of million years.
45.Is youtr child death is being cancelled? No Is your child going on an eternal journey? No Is your child become free from all the sins and all the works? No
46.After death in which way your child would go? * Dev * Manushya * Tiryanich * Naraki
47. Giving more time to religious works leads one to Dev-gati. Is your child giving more time to religious things.
48.By obeying Vishti and jayna one gets Manushya-gati. Is your child obeying that?
49.One who discard the simple rules related to food leads himselves to Tiryanigati. Is your child taking those food which is abdoned in Jain religion?
50.Extreme rudeness pride, lie and cunning intention of one leads one to the way to Hell. Is your child free from all the bad intentions.
51.Just imagine-----after death your child is suffering in hell and Tiryanigati. Is it OK for you?
52.You are a mother, you can never tolarate anything bad happening to your child. It's you and only you who would keep your child away from those ill-intentions which can lead him to Hell or Tiryahchigati.
53.Just imagine after death your child is quite happy in Heaven or in eternal life. Won't you intend that?
54.You are a mother and you will definately intend that your child lead a nice life.The activities which makes one to gain Devgati,you will definately connect your child with that area.The activity which leads to Manushya gati, you will connect your child with that.
55.It is the dream of every Jain mother that a child must be happy in heaven, he must be content, with good attributions and also be religious.
56.A Jain mother never can accept that in heaven her child should b e unhappy, antisocial and non-religious.
57.If we think a child to be a person we can just imagine of his journey in Parlok. If we think a child to be a soul we can imagine of his journey in Parlok.
58.You care for your child. You care for his food habits. You care for his health. But do you care for his soul?
59.You have worried for your child's future. You have worried for your child's education. You have worried for your child's wish. But have you ever worried for your child's soul.
60.If you want to worry for your chil'd soul, than first you worry for your own soul, one who never cares for its own soul can never care for child's soul.
61.You must keep on telling your child new religious stories. A child enjoys very much in stories. After telling the story to the child one must ask him the moral of the story. This way the child learns.
62.A mother must keep increasing the collection of religious books.A mother who knows more religious stories can give more inspiration.
63.Keep asking questions to your child keep asking him three queries. What you learned today? What you met today? What you had today? If you will ask him lovingly he will definately give real answer.
64.Whatever a child learrns at the school, learns at the tution class and learns in their curriculum, many a times some things are there which aree not according to our religion.Thus one should make the child realise about the religion and keep saving them from wrong things.
65.Whoever the child meet, gets impressed from them.If they gets impressed from good things than it is good.If they get impressed from wrong things than one must take them away from that impression.
66.A child will eat only that food which is not prohibits in Jain religion.A child will not eat that food which is prohibited in Jain religion. Keep asking him and ask him what he has not to eat.
67.Inspire the child for religious education. If a child learns any religious poem well, than give the child good prize for that. Keep praising his religious studies and on special studies reward them in a special way.
68.Do worship with the child. Do the Orison of god with the child. Do the Chaitvandan with the child, chant the hymn with the child. Learn religious books with the child. By doing religious activities with the child one can mark that the child gets happiness in the religious ways.
69.If the child does not do religious learning than they must punish themselves.If the child does not try to learn religious gathas, that time the mother keeps herself away from eating sweets. Thus to save the mother from this kind of punishment a child must learn gathas.
70.Have you ever worried about child's religious progress.For make the child religious every mother must leave something in her life.
71.A child wants many worldly things.He wants toys, good clothes, all the good things of the world provided he gets love first, Incredible love, uncountable love, unlimited love........
72.Love is acquired by talks, Love is acquired through meets, Love is acquired by giving time, Love is acquired by apologising, Love is acquired by keeping faith, Love is acquired by giving strength to others. It's ok if there is a shortage of giving things. But it is beyond pardonable things, if there is scarcity of giving love.
73.A child learns good things if he is connected with good channels. Send the child daily to temple Send the child daily to religious guru Send the child to religious pathshala Send the child for different piligrims Tell the child different religious tales Make the child learn the history of Jain religion.
74.Give the child clean clothes for puja Give the child clothes for 'Samayik' Give the child religious books for reading Give the child all the essential material for pooja Give the child all the things which are used while doing 'Samayik' Give the child rolary Give the child some religious gift.
75.Inspire the child to learn,'Sutras', Inculcate the habit in the child to learn religious gathas daily.
76.Teach the child lot of religious poems and songs.
77.Let the child take part in religious play.Let the child take part in religious dances.Let the child take part in religious activities. The child must learn to give religious speech.
78.Respect the feelings of a child, you are grown up whereas the child is quite small, you are understanding but the child in not.Please don't behave with them like that.
79.How much religious strength is there in the child.Just imagine. Is the child capable of doing fasts? Is the child capable of taking religious oaths. Is the child capable of doing sacred and religious activities daily. Is the child able of learning religious studies. If it is there in them thank you should try to bring them on a progressive way always.
80.Your love for your child should never change despite of the fact that he scares good or bad at his school. Your love for your child should never change eventhough he becomes No. 1 or not.
81.Don'ttry to make your child the medium for incresing your hypocracy and proud.
82.A child should be intelligent, its good.But at the same time to have the proud of the thing that a child is good and intelligent is wrong.
83.To love the child just because he is good and intelligent is purely a wrong feeling give the child.your love just considering him your child nothing else. And that is required from your side.
84.If you have more than one child then don't do any sort of discrimination between them. Because of your discrimination the child's self confidence gets disturbed.
85.Don't love the child with any commitment.your love for the child should be without any commitment.
86.In your family you have husband,you have mother-in-law and you also have other members in your family. You should not have rift with any member of your family.By seeing rifts the childs heart gets disturb.
87.Don't lie in the presence of the child because seeing you lieing, he will also learn to lie with others.
88.don't indulge in fight with anybody, because seeing you fighting with others the child would learn to fight.
89.Don't eat anything bad and don't drink any intoxicants(bad drink) in front of the child because seeing that ,he gets inspiration to eat and drink the same things.
90.A child should not be scolded in front of everybody. Tell the child his mistake when none is there.
91.A child from a Jain family can be a childsaqe, a religious child, a child capable of doing many fasts.But all those could be possible by the the inspiration of the mother.
92.whatever religious teachings a child learns in his childhood, it is useful for them throughout their life.
93.A child must have full belief on Navkar-mantra. A child must have faith on Tirthankar. A child must have faith on his religious teacher. A child must have belief on Jain religion. And most of all a child must have faith on his parents.
94.A child always lives in the world of fantacy.Include some things in his fantacy.
a.Love of good merits. b.Fear of Sin. c.Interest in religious things. d.Devotion for thheir gurus. e.Eternal life.
95.You must apologise to the child for any sort of bad - behaviour.
96.You must give courage to a child to speak Pratikraman, Sutra and all kind of Stuti among people.
97.You should not get angry on a child just because of your cunningness and proud.
98.Speak with the child in a simple language, speak with the child in a soft and polite language, speak with the child in a lovable language. speak with the child with confidence.
99.Don't speak with the child in a difficult language. Don't speak with the child in a difficult harsh language. Don't speak with the child in a niggling language. Don't speak with the child in an unclear language.
100.Remember- your future is in the hands of your child.The best prosperation of your child can make your future safe and bright.
101.When your last time will come that time your child would be with you.He would be helping you remember religious things and would be giving you----- Make that kind of imaginary picture.What you have to do and what not to do, that you will understand simply.
